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My controlling husband dictates what I wear and times me doing household chores

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband constantly strokes my leg and pats my bottom at home and in public.

He gets grumpy when I don’t do it to him.

He likes me to wear short skirts when we go out and directs how I sit so he can see my underwear.

He times me doing household chores then ridicules how long it takes me.

When he’s in a really bad mood, he complains that he is at the bottom of my list and says I don’t care about him or our marriage.

I am exhausted from trying to please him and never getting it right. I’m 53 and my husband’s 55.

We have been together for 15 years.

He claims all of our problems are down to me and I am beginning to question myself.

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DEIDRE SAYS: What a miserable way to live. Your husband is a controlling bully and blaming you to justify his actions.

You don’t deserve any of this. He needs to understand that he has a problem and get help.

My e-leaflet Abusive Partner? will help you to think this through.

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