{"id":68007,"date":"2023-10-13T14:27:02","date_gmt":"2023-10-13T14:27:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rapidcelnews.com\/?p=68007"},"modified":"2023-10-13T14:27:02","modified_gmt":"2023-10-13T14:27:02","slug":"dating-coach-reveals-5-traits-that-make-people-bad-at-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rapidcelnews.com\/lifestyle\/dating-coach-reveals-5-traits-that-make-people-bad-at-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating coach reveals 5 traits that make people bad at dating"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>I&#8217;m a dating coach and here are 5 types of people who are surprisingly bad at dating<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Jacob Lucas is a professional dating coach and TikTokker who is based in the UK\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>READ MORE:\u00a0I&#8217;m a dating coach and here are red flags in early dating that you should NEVER ignore<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A dating expert has revealed five types of people who can be surprisingly bad at dating &#8211; because of their positive qualities.<\/p>\n<p>Jacob Lucas is a UK-based coach who has used his\u00a0real-life methods to &#8216;help millions of people get the love life they have always wanted&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>He is the author of guidebook Her Dating Coach, he works directly with clients, and he also\u00a0shares dating content on TikTok\u00a0with his 766,000 followers.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In a recent video, he discussed how positive qualities, like being intelligent and ambitious, can actually hamper people&#8217;s efforts when it comes to relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking in the video, Jacob says: &#8216;I&#8217;m a professional dating coach. And [here are] five types of people who surprisingly, struggle when dating because of their good traits.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/13\/12\/76515097-12627097-image-m-51_1697196981082.jpg\" height=\"942\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Dating coach Jacob Lucas (pictured) has revealed that some positive traits can, surprisingly, make dating more difficult<\/p>\n<p><span>&#8216;You might even have all five of these traits. And if you do, then you&#8217;ll know exactly what I&#8217;m talking about.&#8217;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>The number one trait he lists in the video is intelligence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>According to Jacob: &#8216;Intelligent people&#8230;struggle when dating, because intelligent people need a lot of mental stimulation, and they need a partner on the same wavelength.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>&#8216;Also, they get very bored of surface-level conversations,\u00a0and want deep conversations. And that can be quite hard to find.&#8217;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>The second positive trait he lists is being\u00a0&#8216;very good looking&#8217;. Jacob explains: &#8216;Firstly, if you&#8217;re very good looking, most people won&#8217;t even approach you because they&#8217;re scared that you&#8217;re going to reject them anyway.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>&#8216;And it&#8217;s going to make the dating experience quite isolating for you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>&#8216;And secondly, if you&#8217;re very good looking, people get very nervous around you and tend to treat you differently. So it can be quite hard to find out what people&#8217;s true personalities are like.&#8217;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Moving onto the third positive trait that can making dating more difficult, Jacob lists people who &#8216;love romance in their relationship&#8217;.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/13\/12\/76515107-12627097-image-a-54_1697197064616.jpg\" height=\"966\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Among the people who can find dating tougher are good looking ones, those who are intelligent, those with ambition, romantic types and very loyal people, according to Jacob<\/p>\n<p><span>He says: &#8216;They sometimes struggle when dating because they want to go on romantic dates, and have big romantic gestures in their relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>&#8216;And some people don&#8217;t value that sort of thing. So the amount of people who they would date becomes a lot smaller.&#8217;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>The fourth trait is ambition, with Jacob saying that if someone is\u00a0very ambitious, and they&#8217;re dating somebody who is not ambitious, it can &#8216;lead to a lot of awkward conversations&#8217;. This, he explains, is because &#8216;they don&#8217;t have the same mindset&#8217;.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>He adds: &#8216;So ambitious people tend to do much better when they date other ambitious people.&#8217;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Finally, he says the fifth positive trait that can make dating tough is being &#8216;100 per cent loyal&#8217;, as these types of people often expect this in others &#8211; but don&#8217;t always find it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/article-12627097\/Im-dating-coach-5-types-people-surprisingly-bad-dating.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m a dating coach and here are 5 types of people who are surprisingly bad at dating Jacob Lucas is a professional dating coach and TikTokker who is based in the UK\u00a0 READ MORE:\u00a0I&#8217;m a dating coach and here are red flags in early dating that you should NEVER ignore A dating expert has revealed [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":68006,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.8 - 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