{"id":68387,"date":"2023-10-30T08:23:34","date_gmt":"2023-10-30T08:23:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rapidcelnews.com\/?p=68387"},"modified":"2023-10-30T08:23:34","modified_gmt":"2023-10-30T08:23:34","slug":"my-partners-sister-keeps-dumping-his-nephews-on-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rapidcelnews.com\/lifestyle\/my-partners-sister-keeps-dumping-his-nephews-on-us\/","title":{"rendered":"My partner&apos;s sister keeps dumping his nephews on us"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>My partner&#8217;s sister keeps dumping his nephews on us and they&#8217;ve broken my iPad, ruined our date night and disturbed my work meetings &#8211; people say I should tell him to move out<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><span>The British woman shared that the mischievous\u00a0pair had broken her iPad\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><strong>READ MORE:\u00a0I&#8217;m a new mum and I already regret having a baby &#8211; I miss Netflix\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A woman has vented her frustration over her boyfriend&#8217;s poorly behaved nephews after they ruined the couple&#8217;s date night.<\/p>\n<p>The woman took to the British parenting forum\u00a0Mumsnet\u00a0to explain that she and her partner are like &#8216;on-demand childcare&#8217; for her sister-in-law.<\/p>\n<p>She recounted how they were lumbered with the eight and 10-year-old ahead of a dinner they had been excited about for weeks.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>And this was not the first time their plans had been ruined. The youngsters had already infuriated the woman, having damaged various items &#8211; including her iPad.<\/p>\n<p>Parents took to the comments to share their empathy for the aunt, noting that the children seemed to be &#8216;very badly behaved&#8217; with one saying that she should tell her partner to move out if he doesn&#8217;t start putting her first.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/27\/15\/77080643-12680183-image-a-38_1698415245340.jpg\" height=\"423\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>The woman believes her partner&#8217;s poorly behaved eight and ten-year-old nephews are tearing their relationship apart. She no longer wants to be burdened with them at short notice (stock image)<\/p>\n<p>The woman elaborated that her sister-in-law ruined their date night after asking her partner to take care of the boys.<\/p>\n<p>He agreed because his sister complained that she and her husband had a &#8216;stressful week&#8217; at work.<\/p>\n<p>Despite having dinner plans booked weeks in advance, he agreed to take care of his nephews instead.<\/p>\n<p>The anonymous woman explained: &#8216;This caused an argument and I ended up going to the restaurant with a friend of mine.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>She added that the man was disheartened because she went to the fancy eatery without him.<\/p>\n<p>He was also reportedly &#8216;sulking&#8217; because she would not change her plans to spend time with him and get pizza with the boys.<\/p>\n<p>However, she claimed the youngsters are extremely &#8216;destructive&#8217; and over-bearing, reasoning that the pair have already damaged her iPad which she eventually had to repair.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/27\/15\/77082963-12680183-image-a-48_1698415916952.jpg\" height=\"502\" width=\"633\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/27\/15\/77082955-12680183-image-a-49_1698415922061.jpg\" height=\"389\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>The defiant children had already broken the woman&#8217;s iPad and stained her favourite bag. One of the boys was even being disruptive whilst she was attending an important work meeting from home<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;My favourite bag has a disgusting stain on it from when they touched it with ice-cream soaked hands,&#8217; she added.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The woman went on to explain that her partner has only recently moved in with her and his sister asks her to take care of the children fortnightly or more &#8211; even when they are both working.<\/p>\n<p>One time her sister-in-law only gave two hours notice before dropping one of the boys off, while the couple were working from home.<\/p>\n<p>The youngster, who was with them because his brother had a football match, was running amok whilst the woman was in an important meeting.<\/p>\n<p>She complained her partner could not keep the boy under control, writing\u00a0&#8216;Nephew kept opening the door to my office while I was working. I locked the door. He kept hammering the door while running around.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Ending the post, she stated: &#8216;I love that he&#8217;s close to his family. But I think there&#8217;s a limit to that and I can&#8217;t deal with it anymore.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Parents expressed an overwhelming amount of support for the woman, with a whopping 96 per cent agreeing her perspective was &#8216;reasonable&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Many urged the woman to get her partner out of the home, with one writing: &#8216;I\u2019d ask him to move back out! The work thing is totally unacceptable.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Another added: &#8216;Well he obviously has no respect for you, your home or your possessions.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/27\/15\/77082981-12680183-image-a-53_1698415950114.jpg\" height=\"69\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/27\/15\/77082973-12680183-image-a-51_1698415938803.jpg\" height=\"69\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/27\/15\/77082967-12680183-image-a-52_1698415941680.jpg\" height=\"65\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/27\/15\/77082961-12680183-image-m-58_1698415979489.jpg\" height=\"45\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/27\/15\/77082957-12680183-image-a-55_1698415957610.jpg\" height=\"61\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/27\/15\/77082953-12680183-image-m-59_1698415989494.jpg\" height=\"58\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/27\/15\/77082951-12680183-image-a-57_1698415963307.jpg\" height=\"97\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Parents flocked to the comments to offer their support to the woman, with many urging her to tell her partner to move out<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I can&#8217;t understand why he&#8217;s still there! If the relationship is to continue then you need separate living arrangements.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Others pointed out her partner had issues with boundaries, stating: &#8216;The problem isn&#8217;t the fact that his sister asks him to look after his nephews now and again. It&#8217;s that he can&#8217;t say no. He needs to put you first.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>One person commented: &#8216;He can take them out or start saying no. He shouldn\u2019t have them when he is working and can\u2019t supervise them.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Praising the woman for remaining steadfast in her plans, one wrote: &#8216;I&#8217;m so glad you went out, I&#8217;d have done the same!&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/article-12680183\/Boyfriends-nephews-ruining-relationship-Mumsnet.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My partner&#8217;s sister keeps dumping his nephews on us and they&#8217;ve broken my iPad, ruined our date night and disturbed my work meetings &#8211; people say I should tell him to move out The British woman shared that the mischievous\u00a0pair had broken her iPad\u00a0 READ MORE:\u00a0I&#8217;m a new mum and I already regret having a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":68386,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>My partner&amp;apos;s sister keeps dumping his nephews on us - rapidcelnews.com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/rapidcelnews.com\/lifestyle\/my-partners-sister-keeps-dumping-his-nephews-on-us\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"My partner&amp;apos;s sister keeps dumping his nephews on us - rapidcelnews.com\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"My partner&#8217;s sister keeps dumping his nephews on us and they&#8217;ve broken my iPad, ruined our date night and disturbed my work meetings &#8211; 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