Valerie Bertinelli’s New Memoir
Valerie Bertinelli’s new book, titled ‘Getting Naked: The Quiet Work of Becoming Perfectly Imperfect’, was published on March 10, 2026, and offers a candid look into her life, including her struggles with trauma and her journey toward self-acceptance.
At 65 years old, Bertinelli reflects on her past, including her experience of being sexually abused at the age of 11. In her memoir, she shares how she has worked to overcome this trauma, stating, “I was sexually assaulted. It doesn’t feel like it owns me anymore. I’m a survivor.” This powerful declaration highlights her resilience and commitment to healing.
Bertinelli’s personal life has been marked by significant relationships, including her 26-year marriage to rock legend Eddie Van Halen, who passed away from cancer in 2020. She recalls her final words to him, “I love you.” Despite their separation in 2001 and eventual divorce in 2007, Bertinelli expresses enduring affection for Van Halen, saying, “I still love him to this day. But when I say that, people are like, what? It’s because I love the human being. I love his soul.”
Her second marriage to Tom Vitale lasted just over a decade and was finalized in 2022. Currently, Bertinelli has stated that she is not interested in pursuing another relationship, focusing instead on her own personal growth and healing.
In her memoir, she also discusses her journey into therapy, specifically Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), which she learned to help address her past traumas. Bertinelli’s candidness about her mental health journey resonates with many, as she emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and the ongoing work required to achieve it.
Additionally, Bertinelli reflects on the loss of her brother Mark, who died when he was just 17 months old. This early tragedy has shaped her understanding of grief and resilience throughout her life.
As observers continue to engage with Bertinelli’s story, the memoir serves as a testament to her strength and vulnerability. While she has faced numerous challenges, her narrative of healing and self-acceptance offers hope and inspiration to others navigating similar paths. Details remain unconfirmed regarding any future projects or public appearances following the release of her memoir.
